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Building a Friendship is like Planting a Garden


A friend is someone who cherishes the special moments and
memories of life with another person. A friend is a
trustworthy companion. Friendship is a relationship which
takes time to build. There are many steps and stages to
achieving a true friendship. However, one can think
building a friendship is like planting a garden.
For many people, planting a garden represents, devotion and
leisure. It takes patience to grow a garden, frustrations
and hardships are also involved in the process. Firstly the
seed is planted. The seed builds the foundation of a strong
and stable plant. It has to be taken care of and watered
daily. Then the shoots start sprouting, the plant is
finally flourishing. One can see day by day the garden
maturing. Then one day the garden starts to wilt, its
dying. One has to tend to it and have the patience and
determination to bring it back to life. It frustrates one
to see the insects and predators preying on the beautiful
garden that once existed. But hard work and devotion
regains the gardens beauty and gives it life again. Soon a
shoots blossom an bloom into beautiful flowers. The charm
and divine beauty of the garden is a wonderful enlightening
sight. Building a friendship has similar characteristics.
One meets a person and plants the seed of friendship. The
friendship builds and continues to grow stronger. It
requires devotion of time and patience to achieve peak
communication between the two companions. The struggle to
keep a solid friendship includes many obstacles and
hardships. But compromising, devotion and the willingness
to endure is bound to payoff in the end. As Bernard Wolf
quotes ^It takes a long time to grow an old friendship^.
Friendship has its good and bad times. There comes a time
when the relationship is just not working. It is
preoccupied with disagreements and quarrels. It is on the
verge of destruction. One must have the patience to deal
with such frustrations. The willingness and determination
to get the relationship working again come within.
Compromising and persistence rebuilds the friendship and is
once again reestablished. As Socrates once said ^Be slow to
fall into friendship, but when thou art ! in, continue firm
and constant^. The friendship is blooming and is finally on
its peak. Its great to have a strong and stable
relationship which allows the two companions to share the
joys and memories of life together. If building a
friendship can be compared to planting a garden then
perhaps some of its frustrations and problems can be better
understood. The true meaning of friendship is achieved by
understanding its relativity to planting a garden. A person
who builds a friendship as planting a garden can overcome
the obstacles of it very easily. The symbolism becomes
clear and precise. Friendship and planting a garden can
both be said as ^give and take^. The more effort and
persistence put into them the more stronger and everlasting
happiness can be accomplished.



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